Kids are a puddle of potential. As parents, our goal is not to prevent them from experiencing pain, our goal is to support and nurture them when they are in pain. We want to teach kids how to regulate biologically and not through external mechanisms.
What is fear?
False evidence appearing real? Or, fuck everything and everything run?
The best way to deal with attachment is to let go. Breath and let it go.
Surrendering for me isn’t about giving up, it’s about letting go – and letting go is about looking at the emotional attachment that you have connected to an outcome.
Who’s ever been in the situation before where someone has gotten you so hyped up and so excited that they actually start to manipulate or influence you to do something that ends up being a complete fucking car crash?
We’ve got to stop looking at ADHD as a deficit and starting looking at it for the upgrade that it is. Because to me, having ADHD is an advantage, especially as an entrepreneur. Let me tell you why.
How do we make the most important things in our life, a way of life, so we don’t spend all of our life hoping that at some point we arrive and we have the things that we want?
So when we look at planning, what is planning of a major function of? It’s major function of leadership and cultural development. There are three things that fundamentally underpin planning.
Let me introduce you do HALT, which stands for hungry, angry, lonely or tired.
Do you have fears that you’d like to overcome? They’re not yours, you’ve inherited them from in some cases parents, teachers, and even other family members.
Whatever you need in life will control you. We’re all addicted to something. The question is, is it external or is it internal?